Certainly some of us are lucky enough to have a partner who's good at oral sex, but unfortunately that doesn't always means he's so inclined to do it. If that's the case, here are a few tips to get your man to pleasure you.
- Ask for it. Be bold, take charge, and tell him exactly what you want. Say it in your own sweet way.
- If you don't want to have to ask for it, place yourself in a position (literally) that communicates exactly what you want. Shift your body and his kisses appropriately to move him in the right direction.
- You can even make it a little game by taking turns with one another or by incorporating oral sex into something new that you're experimenting with.
- When it does happen, make sure that he knows how good he makes you feel. If he believes that he's good at it, he'll be more likely to want to do it in the future.
Ideally, it should be fun for both of you, so work together to come up with ways to make it more pleasurable for him. Got your own tips? Share them in the comments below.









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haha yea my man def. does not like doing this. That's ok though because I only like it here and there...it just doesn't do it for me.
1I don't really like it, so I'm not much of a help. Asking for it is definitely the first step. Guys like it when you're a little aggressive, so that will probably work. Or else you could hold out on him. If he won't perform oral on you, you won't perform it on him. That seems fair.
2I don't like doing it. That's my boyfriend's complaint.
3haha that's what i was going to say - it's a man's common comlpaint that girls don't like performing on them! i met this married guy on the weekend and all he did was talk about how his wife never gives it. i think he was fishing for a volunteer, but there were no takers
4Yea when I feel like I am in the mood (once in a blue moon!) I just ask him and usually he will
I LOVE giving oral sex to him though! He loves that too!
5It's really quite simple: you don't give, you don't get.
6Wow! I'm a lucky girl I guess 'cause my boyfriend ALWAYS wants to "whistle through the wheatfield". Me for him? Not so much. Haha!
7i can't just downright ask for it..it just embarresses me. but i can make hints. he knows that i'm not gonna get much outta him just banging away..so he takes time for me. he gets pleasure outta seeing me happy, then he can take his. i seem to get more into it that way too.
8cosign with sporky
9"whistle through the wheatfield"
LMAOOO!
10well me and hubby absolutely dont have this problem
but my friend and her ex had a HUGE problem with it. it was so aggravating for her!!!
11i personally dont like it done to me
12I guess I'm a lucky girl as well, since that is the one thing that really "works" for me, my fiance is all about it. Even when I suggest a quickie, he heads down that direction anyway....I guess I should return the favor a bit more often than once every few months huh??
13He says he loves going down on me and does it regularly so I have no problem there and I do love receiving it. It helps that he's great at it too.. I'm blessed
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14My sweetheart loves to do it and is GREAT at it. Yay!
15i hate oral sex i really do!! its gross its like sucking a smelly stick
16LOOOOOOOOOL at wadewifey3
17My guy likes doing it, but I'm not really into it...
18i'm not a big big fan, but my boyfriend loves doing it.. so i think i'm lucky anyways!
19all i have to do is ask- he likes to do it, but i don't always want it...so when i do ask, he goes all out! also- a tip- eat lots of pineapple a couple hours before- it'll make you smell and taste good
20ah this is the worst for me...
21it's like it's not like i want it so badly, but i want him to want to-- you know? him not doing it just makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. the worst thing is i have told him this, and he's just like "i don't like doing it in general." blah blah... i mean i am not in general, i am me. sorry about the rant, its just not something i get to vent about often...
Generally I've found through my male friends and past and present realtionships is that a guy isn't entirely opened to the idea after a traumatic experiance. Now, I don't want to speak for everybody, but what I've learned is that usually somewhere in your guy's past, he eagerly went down on a girl, only to find out it's not so fresh down there. Once, twice.. who knows how many times he's encountered that, and soon enough you all hear the answers "I just don't like it.." well ladies, for a start, why not suggest taking a shower together prior to hooking up, that way your S.O will be sure everything is fresh and clean down there and be more inclined to do it next time. I'm not saying you girls aren't clean, all I'm trying to convey is that a little effort on your part to show him HOW CLEAN you are, can do wonders ; )
I am very OCD about making sure that the day my BF and I get together I am as clean and fresh and smelling like flowers as possible, and my BF loves doing it, but I'm just not a big fan so I usually stop him mid-way and move on. Before me though, he's told me he also had a bad experiance and is very cautious before he goes down on a girl.
22I love giving it as does he, so I guess it works out.
I thought that I didn't like it but come to find out, none of the guys I was with knew what they were doing. Once a found a guy who really could use his tongue down there, mmmmmmmmmmm good stuff!
23Ugh, I totally hate it, yet my boyfriend would love to do it. I just think its gross.
24It's funny when a guy hates to give, but totally expects to receive. Where do they come up with this stuff?! Fortunately, my bf and I seem to be pretty good about reciprocating, and I don't need it all the time anyway.
25offer 69?
26MeDestruit - that's sound advice, my bf said a few years ago he went out with a girl and he described her smell as "seafood salad" and that turned him off from going down on a girl for a long time
Same goes for a guy though, keeping clean down there is important for them as well, nothing worse than a cheesy weenie
27i am not a fan of getting oral sex....
28I was with a guy for 3 years who never once went down on me, but he would seriously get mad at me for not wanting to do it to him. Rationale in that? But now bf will do it and I seriously enjoy it.
29i think it may make people --ahem, like me-- feel bad if you infer that women who don't get a lot of oral action are unclean. if anything, not getting much as increased my already ocd attitude towards my personal hygiene.
30I didn't suggest that the women who aren't receiving are unclean, you have the wrong idea kenzie.. all i said was that it may be the reason why some men aren't as inclined and interested in doing it because of previous bad experiences. I've have many male friends, and over the years it seems to be a recurring story. All you have to do is show your S.O that it's not the case with you, and likely he'll be more inclined in giving : )
31I like to give it and my husband loves it (when its not smelly) and he likes to give it to me but I dont always want it...
32Sporky and I are one and the same!
33I have the opposite problem: he'd love to give but I don't like to receive. Ick.
34I love giving it, and he complains when a week has gone by and I haven't given him some. In my defense, I only see him twice a week!!
He loves giving it, but sometimes, it's a minute before we're walking out the door to eat, and I'm sorry, but I probably haven't eaten in twelve hours. I want FOOD! Of course, I won't mind taking up his offer later, though! Sometimes, I just give-in and receive the lovin' before the food, too.
35Ya'll are crazy! How can you possibly not like getting oral sex?!?! My boyfriend is MMMazing at it and he loves to do it. He begs to do it and I have no problem asking when I want it!
36I would not stay with a man if he couldn't offer me everything I need and want in bed. I don't see a relationship working out if I'm sexually unfulfilled. Sorry dude. lol
37hehheh...Im a lucky girl. My bf loves to give it. I love the feel of it. We try to 69 it so be both can pleasure eachother.
38I don't understand all of the women here who say they don't like receiving it. I think either you have been with a guy that doesn't know what the hell he is doing (in which you need to gently teach him), or you are ashamed of your body. There is nothing disgusting about it. Men can become very aroused by doing this and by the scent of a woman. Either way, you should try to relax and enjoy it more. It can be absolutely amazing. After all, many women don't orgasm just from intercourse, we should be able to receive pleasure in other ways!
39I much rather prefer giving than receiving...
40I agree with RaCheer & Janine22. How do you NOT like *good* oral sex? Bad oral sex can be gross yes (ugh dotn remind me), but otherwise I dont get it...
41Love to give and love to receive.
42"whistle through the wheatfield" I agree..LMAO..
43I guess it depends on the guy's confidence!
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