My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and have been living together for most of that time. In the first eight months, we were rocky — we broke up twice for brief periods. He had some serious issues and a wall that I couldn't get passed. After we broke up the second time, we finally worked through his personal issues that were holding us back. We haven't had any serious problems since then.

We have gone through some spells where I doubted us, but they've always been temporary. But in the last few months I'm having more serious doubts; I just feel like we aren't going to make it. I really want us to, but it just seems like we keep growing apart. We have sex only three or four times a month. I know we both want to be happy, but we just keep butting heads. He loves me, and the majority of the time I end up being the bad guy in our disputes. I don't really respect him, and I'm not sure he's truly what I want. But I do love him. I want him to be the one I want. I want us to work it out. I just want things to go back to the way they were. Is this even possible? Any advice?

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