After the admission of your boyfriend's affair, and the discovery of pictures of him with the other woman on a weekend getaway, you've finally called it quits. Though the last few months have been rough, you've just recently started to see the light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, you've finally begun to socialize again and get back to way things used to be.
During one of your first nights out with friends, you're having a great time until you see the girl from the pictures — your ex's lover, sitting at the bar buying drinks. She doesn't seem to notice you, and even though you know you shouldn't, you're just dying to say something to her, so ladies, how would you handle this?
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that's tough, who's to say the other girl knew he was a cheater? haha but i would approach and inform her that her beloved boyfriend was a two-timing jerk!!
1I'm not sure if I'd even say anything. It's still not going to change what happened so I dunno if I'd bother. I guess I'd have to be in that situation to know. I've had something almost similar happen though. I was dating this guy for about 2 years and then we broke up and about a week later I was out with friends and found out he already had a new gf. It sucked but now that I look back I don't know what I was thinking!
2I wouldn't bother.
3I wouldn't bother, either. There's no guarentee that she knew he had a girlfriend - and if she did, then both of those losers deserve each other!
4It depends on how much you liked the guy.
5If that happened to me with my current bf I would probably go up to her and tell her who I was and if she was aware that he was in a serious relationship with me and tell her she's a skank. lol. I'm kidding. But I would tell her if she was aware that she has no shame and karma will also bite her in the butt.
After a few drinks I would probably be dying to say something to her. I'm guessing my friends would try to stop me though...
6i think you come out on top by being classy & not saying anything at all to her. if she knew that you two were dating before, she'll notice you at the bar & (hopefully) her guilt will kick in on its own. if she didn't, then what's the use of saying anything at all?
7Wow!! Its not even worth it to go there with her cuz in the end both females will look stupid fighting over a dude that was a dog in the first place. If you think about it he was playin both of them anyway. So why get mad when you can get even. Thats the problem with most females they like to get mad at each other in these types of situations when they need to be looking at the stupid guy that played them!!
8I wouldn't say a damn word and probably end up leaving so I wouldn't be tempted to do otherwise.
9Uh uh. Never worth going down that road, believe me. Especially if your heart's already on the mend, I'd do myself a favor and find cute boy at the bar instead.
10Honestly, while you've been coping for the past few months, you can't be sure if the girl's the hoe-bag-that-ruined-your-relationship that you imagined her to be knew that your ex had a girlfriend... so I probably wouldn't say anything. I would, however, laugh derisively once I do see her and tell all of my friends.
11As unclassy as I think it is, I know after a couple drinks me and my big mouth would be getting in trouble.
12I've met the girl my then ex-boyfriend had a fling with right after we broke. They were friends when we were dating but now that me and him have reconciled they do not speak. I have also chosen not to utter a word to her (even though I do know many of her friends).
She knew perfectly well that we were dating and she shamelessly flirted with him. He has made it up to me (and plus I was no angel when we were broken up) but it was complicated and hurtful. I took the high road though and I am really glad!
(I hope this comes out right, English is def. not my first language!)
13I wouldn't say anything. What's the point?
14I wouldn't even bother. I might glare at her, but I wouldn't speak a word to her about anything.
15I wouldn't say anything, mostly because of my passive aggressive attitude, but also because I wouldn't know how the situation was for her.
I have a friend who dated a guy for about 2 months before his other girlfriend confronted her. She was nice about it but the point is that my friend had no idea that she was the other woman. They both dumped him.
16I wouldn't say a word to her. For my own sanity, I think I'd just try to find another decent bar in the area.
17I would leave her alone. I would have closed that chapter in my life, and moved on, so I wouldn't want to re-hash anything. It's not worth it. Besides, the way I see it, she had my sloppy seconds.
18What's the point? A majority of the women who cheat with men that they know are in a committed relationship get off on the feeling that they've taken something from someone. It would just feed her ego.
19Looking good is the best revenge. I hope that I would look amazing in this circumstance. but it would probably be the day I wore a baseball hat.
20If she wasn't someone I knew (e.g. if I wasn't sure that she knew she was the other woman) I wouldn't say anything. if she was someone who knew, then it depends on how many drinks are in me.
I would so want to say something to her, but I know I wouldn't. I'm pretty non-confrontational.
21Why bother? You have moved on and he is some other girl's mess now. You do not want to be involved.
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