A friend invites you out with her boyfriend because she misses you. Even though you hate to be a third wheel, you agree to go because you’re trying to be a good friend. At first things are fine, but as the night wears on, your friend and her man keep getting more and more physical. If he's not brushing his fingers over her neck and chest, then she's running her hands through his hair.
The excessive PDA is getting old, and you go the bathroom to get it away from it for a while. You’re sure it can’t get much worse, but when you get back to the table, they’re fully groping each other and making out. You're totally grossed out, but you feel uncomfortable interrupting them, so how do you handle this?
Charles Anastase
Galeries Lafayette
Shiseido
Simply leave. Then the next time you speak to your friend, tell her how uncomfortable that made you feel.
1I'd leave. this wasn't a hard one for me.
2Oh yea, do one of those *yawn, is that the time, I gotta get going*, and just leave. But I would be really really pissed off at my friend if she was that inconsiderate in front of me. My fiancee and I have our single friends come over all the time, and we don't even sit next to each other!! Hahah.. I would hate if anyone felt as if they were imposing on the two of us especially when they were invited over.
But this would almost make me not wanna talk to my friend..for sure. Its rude and disrespectful and shows absolutely no regard for anyone else's feelings
3what kind of friend behaves like this? ugh, gross.
4And I would totally leave without bothering to make up any explanation.
5that's easy, i would just leave and tell her the next day how uncomfortable it was for me.
6I would say "hey get a room!" If they still carry on, I will tell them "I am soooo not hanging out with you guys again..." but I don't think I would leave on the spot - just because i am lazy hehehe...
7make an excuse to get out of there
8I would find new a friend. Who gropes and makes out in public anyway?
9I would just leave, too. I wouldn't even say goodbye...
10ew. i've had that happen to me before. i just looked away and tried to find a happy place.
11I agree with linb
12well first i wouldnt invite the bf because if she misses you its probably because shes been hangng out with him all the time. so this wouldnt even happen becaue he wouldnt be there:) but if it did.. i would be pissed and leave. its totally innapropriate.
13I'd just leave. I'd be really irritated if that happened to me.
14I'd speak up.
Say something funny but stern enough they can take a breath. Then say something along the lines if they want to be alone I'll be happy to catch up with her solo the other night.
Then when I can chat with her alone explain how rude/uncomfy it was.
15I would just say something......I wouldn't feel uncomfortable. I'd be like "Did you bring me along to propose a threesome or to hang out cause you miss me?"
But none of my friends would act this way anyway.......
16I can't remember if this as ever happened to me. I don't think so (I would remember) but if it did. I would be highly pissed off . . take my friend to the restroom and tell her how I feel then I'd leave.
17I'd 'accidentally' pour a drink on them.
18i would say 'well it seems like the only thing holding you back from gettin freaky is me so i'll be leaving' and next time don't bother inviting me over
19kristinh... HYSTERICAL! hahahaha
20i'd interrupt and make them feel as uncomfortable as they're making me feel.
21it's what i do with my friends who get too touchy in front of me.
they've since learned that i don't like PDA, so they try not to do it in front of me
Laugh, excuse myself, and maybe leave a little less money than I really owed.
22Stand up and leave.
23Just politely decline their offer of a threesome.
I try to avoid nights out with just me and one couple. Booze definitely gets the PDAs going, so if a friend absolutely does not get it, just go to lunch instead. If they ask why, tell them.
24Ha, this reminds me, has anyone been watching the real World? Someone had sex right in the room with their roommates even after they said "I'm awake, please don't". Then the pissed off roommate was so mad she went and called her mom! Too funny.
25This reminds me of being in the 7th grade...I remember doing a group project at my house with my best friend and two of our close guy friends. My best friend and one of the guys started making out right in front of me and the other guy as we were trying to work...it was so uncomfortable.
So yeah, this isn't behavior I'd expect from adults and I'd DEFINITELY speak up! I'd actually probably just leave.
26I'd leave.
27My boyfriend's roommate last year did that. His girlfriend would come over around midnight, then leave around 7 AM. They would get in his bed, start feeling up each other, dry humping, make moaning and squeaking noises, giggle and make-out excessively (on top of the covers!). They were Christians, so they "vowed" to practice abstinence, but they got to the point of rubbing their genitals together, but never penetrating. It was ridiculous. And they did it in front of EVERYONE.
In this case, I would leave, and if she called to ask what happened, I would tell her never to invite me along when she's on a date with her boyfriend or when he'll be around.
28I'd just laugh and tell them I was going to leave and tell my friend to call me later to make more plans. That way they can continue and you can see your friend later when you can spend quality time together.
29My first thought would be to say something, but since she didnt care enough to leave the PDA alone in my presence, then I would leave. It wouldnt even be worth interrupting them because I would feel uncomfortable for the remainder of the night anyway. And I agree with Papaver - who ever would do that is gross and not much of a respectable friend.
30OMG you guys don't have it bad until you go to your best friends house and she's invited your EX BOYFRIEND over and is holding hands/making out with him the whole time. I just went right home.
31An everyday occurence for me & I can't do anything about it as I don't have a car and rely on my friend to take me home after were all done hanging out. I usually try to ignore it...once I hear moaning and groaning I usually move in my seat and cough a bit and try to get fixated on what's playing on the tv. It's hard to ignore though when you hear moaning and hear lots of moving...
32I would leave. This always seems to happen to me too and I HATE it, especially because I get jealous that I'm not in a relationship. But besides that it's just really annoying to see PDAs. I mean, get a room!! lol, but seriously it's irritating. But one time though, this guy was really hitting on my friend and she didn't seem to mind it so I walked really slow and let them go ahead of me since I thought she wanted to be alone w/him. Later she told me that she was mad because I stayed behind instead of staying with her to make the guy go away! LOL. it was kinda funny how things can be misunderstood like that =)
33haha
34I agree with the poster above, it happened to me too the other night, I thought my friend wanted to be alone with this guy and it turned out that she got pissed that I left because the guy ended up meeting with one of his friends and not going home with her like he usually does... but how the hell was I supposed to predict that?
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