Your chest has always been on the smaller side, and though you've complained on occasion about not being able to fill out a particular top, or looking too small in a bathing suit, for the most part you don’t mind being flat chested — at least you can go braless when necessary! Well it turns out your boyfriend has a different opinion.
After jokingly mentioning a few times that he would love to see what you'd look like with breast implants, now he’s actually offering to pay for a boob job. You’re totally shocked that he’d take it this far so how do youhandle this?
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melissa
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DUMP him. You don't like me the way I am? I don't think I like you as my boyfriend anymore.
1tell him
2"baby thats so great u've saved enuff for plastic surgery. now u can have the penile implant i've always thought u needed"
that ought to shut him up
DUMP HIM! well...after asking ARE YOU F*KING SERIOUS???? and then if he says yes...then DUMP HIM! On the spot...forever!
3Sorry but I would dump his ass! My boyfriend knows better than to do this. If he can't accept me the way I am then I don't want to be with him.
4any guy that suggests a woman put her life at risk so she could look better to him, should be dumped immediately.
5personally, i would tell him to go to hell. i have a somewhat small chest, but i love it...it fits my petite body.
however, if i ever felt as though breast augmentation would make me feel better, i would do it for me...not anyone else. fat chance at that because going braless is pretty awesome.
6I had a boyfriend suggest this! He was a Big boob guy. I told him I liked my chest just how it is. Along with other reasons we were over soon after the suggestion.
7Take the money for the surgery, and then RUN!
8Yeah, I'd be saying "see you later" and moving on...
9aw, hell no! If this came up, it would definitely start a BIG fight that would probably result in a break-up. If big boobs are more important to him than loving a girl for who she is, than good riddance to him and may he find happiness with more endowed woman who accepts how shallow he is.
10Well if you like your boobs (or anything) just how it is now, then yeah it makes sense to leave him and find someone who lieks you for you.
but if you don't like something about yourself, i can see how someone would use this to justify their own actions; like if they were thinking about getting a surgery before and then their SO offers to pay for it... at least that way, when they break up (which they will), she will feel a lot better about herself and he will have to go find a new person to change.
There's also that saying, "The guy who pays for the boobs rarely gets to enjoy them!"
11Wow, I guess I'm in the minority here because I don't think I would be mad. I wouldn't have the surgery if I didn't want it, but to be offended by something that someone offered to do like that? I don't know...I think I would just say thanks, but I'm actually happy with the way I look and I don't want to undergo surgery.
Now if he pushed it any farther after that then I like gruaig_rua's idea of taking the money for the surgery and giving him the boot! He would deserve it then!
12if you're going to go through a procedure like that, you should make sure you're doing it for YOU and not someone else.
13DUMP HIM! If he can't like you for who you are then let him go find someone who's chest will make him happy! You'll be better of!
I have always had medium sized breasts and I am now losing weight so they are getting smaller. I have mentioned to my boyfriend that I am sad that they are shrinking and he just tells me that he still loves them (and me) and that my health is way more important than the size of my chest. That's how it should be!
14It depends on the situation - the amount of time that we have been dating, my views on plastic surgery, etc.
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, so I would not find his suggestion of a boob job insulting at all. Actually in my relationship, his willingness to put down that kind of money for something that he can't take back in the event of a breakup would be a huge sign of commitment
15Dump. Although I do like the idea of replying that he needs a penile enhancement.
16The fool would get himself a ticket to Dumpsville on the spot. I'm not completely opposed to vanity surgery, but that's just not the kind of thing you suggest to a lover.
17Yeah.... dump that ass. If my guy doesn't like me the way I am, A-cups and all, he can put up and shut up, or break up.
18I dump the guy, pronto. I love my body.
19That is completely insensitive. I say dump him and find someone who appreciates you for YOU!
20i'd tell him i'd start wearing push up bras (my boobs are so small i don't ever wear any kind of bra) and that i would want a nose job instead haha. if he didn't agree... DUMP!
21Dump!! That's just really insensitive.
22DUMP HIM! After I made fun of his small penis and kicked him in the teeth for being an insensitive pig.
23You are so lucky! You have found out what an immature person he is before you got any more involved. How insecure HE must be to want to re-design YOU! Would you really want this personality flaw in your life permanently?
24How clueless. He mentioned it jokingly, you did not bite, now he is pushing it, even offering a finacial incentive.
Ba-bye.
Id totally take part of the money. But yeah, he'd be dumped.
25I would tell him where he could shove that silicone implant and then dump him.
26"baby thats so great u've saved enuff for plastic surgery. now u can have the penile implant i've always thought u needed"
great comeback comment SunSun!
27oh my goddd yes use the money to buy something you really want and leave his ass
28Dump him. no man is worth risking your life for.
29I wold occasionally start to mentioned that maybe he needs some surgery too -down under. And that I would be happy to pay for it...
I'm a b*tch
30Dump him and get him a brain implant, because that seems to be what hes really missing.
31I'd look at him like he lost his flipping mind and then proceed to find myself a new boyfriend because it's obvious that he doesn't care about me.
32Absolutely not!
Never augment your body for anyone but yourself!
That goes for tattoos, piercings and SURGERY!
If you wanted to do it on your own and he offered to pay, then great.
But if he is pressuring you and making you feel like you should do it for him ~
I would dump his A$$!
33I actually am getting breast implants and my boyfriend DID offer to pay for them (well he cosigned my loan and we will both be making payments as we live together and share finances.) BUT I have wanted this for a long long time to feel better about myself. I was the one who asked him what he would think and asked him to cosign the loan. I agree with what a previous poster said about commitment, it was a really good sign to me that he agreed to cosign and sweet since he knew how much I wanted it. I don't feel like he pressured me to get them at all, because if that were the case and he thought I needed bigger boobs, I don't think he would have been with me in the first place.
HOWEVER, if this was totally his suggestion and I clearly did not want to have surgery, I would laugh in his face and walk away. Your boyfriend is supposed to be the one person who makes you feel beautiful no matter what.
34There's no way my husband would ever suggest this so I'm going to imagine it coming from a theoretical new boyfriend. I don't think I have the temper to dump him on the spot but the relationship would basically be over within the week.
Something like this actually happened with a friend of mine. (She broke up with him.) I was surprised to hear it because she's at least 2 cup sizes larger than me, and all I've ever heard from men is that my body is great the way it is. I guess the men who really have a thing for big breasts don't even know I exist, which is fine by me.
35I would tell him he needs a bigger penis because I am just not feeling it anymore, hahahahahahah, literally and figuratively. And then I would dump his ass. And I know its easy to say things on here about what we "would" do...but if anyone ever said anything like that to me, I would lose ALL respect for them and seriously dump them and never talk to them ever again.
36Ooo, I changed my answer.... gruaig_rua: Hell yeah!!!! I would take the money, and then say what I just said in my last post...and then run!!! Hahahaha, ROTFL.
37...and I would feel good about myself because I would have small boobs that wouldn't get in the way of my running...so I could run faster to get away with the money!!!! hahahaha
LOL LOL LOL. This was a good topic...very entertaining.
38Yeah, I agree with the others about the money. I would say oh do you really think so? Would you really pay for it? Ok, honey, my appointment is __o'clock on ___. If you could just deposit the money into my account. Then I would take the money, go on a fabulous trip. Oh yeah, and kick him in the nuts hard before I go, saying thanks for the money jackass. Then I would go on vacation, meet a gorgeous foreign man who loves my tiny titties, and have lots of great sex with him!
39Sun_Sun wins this one..... "Tell him
"baby thats so great u've saved enuff for plastic surgery. now u can have the penile implant i've always thought u needed"
that ought to shut him up"
I wouldn't dump him.... I would just tell him that I am not interested in altering my appearance. And that he's loved me flat-chested for so long that he should deal.
40Well, I'm naturally very busty, and on my petite frame, I'm even more buxom. Someone once presumed I had breast implants. No man ever suggested breast augmentation to me. LOL
However, if I was in that situation, I would dump him. If he's not happy with my body, he could find someone else.
41id dump his ass on the spot. Am not going to chance my body for some man
42I don't know what most of you are talking about. If a man offered that opportunity I would obliged to pleasure him every way I could so he wouldn't change his mind. I think the word gratitude needs to be appllied here
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