I've been to a handful of bachelorette parties, some relaxing and some wild and crazy, but my favorite one had a little bit of both. Picking the location of your bachelorette party takes a lot of consideration, especially when factoring in a bunch of different women's preferences. If I were to plan my own, it'd be someplace warm so we could be poolside by day, but also someplace fun so we could be painting the town red by night. While I think that's a pretty common criteria for a bachelorette party, some women vote for a weekend getaway in the snow or opt to rent a house somewhere discrete and have a very mellow retreat. So tell me ladies, even if you aren't currently engaged or married, what kind of bachelorette party do you want? Do you want to relax or go all out?

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We each got a cheap address book with pages A-Z, and our lists were
organized A-Z based on me and my husband to some extent (and just fun for the rest) - things like, D was a guy named David, E was a guy who was an English major...T was a guy carrying a
Trojan in his wallet. We hit the bars together, chatted up random guys and got their signatures on the pages of the address books for the items the corresponded to. It was just a wonderful
day, fun all the way through.

I want a combined bachelor/bachelorette party, something low-key, like a backyard barbecue.
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