If you’re even moderately well mannered, there’s probably been a time or two when you’ve listened to someone else recount a story or gripe over a personal issue that you had absolutely no interest in. In those moments, it’s often easier to just nod and smile then actually try to follow what they’re saying. It may not be the nicest thing to do, but it’s better than just completely ignoring someone so let me ask you: do you ever just pretend to listen?
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Sometimes.
And when I do and I know I just missed something I'll be honest and say something like "I'm sorry, can you repeat that last bit... I wasn't concentrating". Depending on who it is I'll come right out and say "Sorry you'll have to repeat that, I stopped listening"!!
They do it with me too.
There is a mutual understanding about it all.
Sometimes you need to talk out loud to figure out your own problems, you don't actually need the person to respond!
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