Turn On or Turn Off: Guys Who Love to Dance

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Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:00pm by DearSugar

I love a guy who likes to dance. There's something incredibly sexy and sensual about a man with rhythm. But whether he's a total goof or a hip-hop legend, if he's down to shake it on the dance floor then he's on his way to being perfect in my mind. So do you think a man that loves to dance is a complete turn on, too?

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skigurl [+]

it really depends on the guy

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:10pm Report Comment

skigurl [+]

i've been known to have cereal for breakfast, snack, lunch, snack (like 4 bowls in a day)...so i'm sure i'd do it up for dinner if the mood struck me

Special K Satisfaction and Special K Fruit and Yogurt are both amazing and i find myself craving them all the time

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:13pm Report Comment

skigurl [+]

WAIT! this comment thing is so weird! okay i obviously posted that in the wrong spot!

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:13pm Report Comment

Jude C [+]

Meh. I'm indifferent. It's a nice skill to have, but if he's dancing, who's going to sit with me at the bar, making fun of everyone? Eye-wink

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:18pm Report Comment

RawesomeRio [+]

Jude C has a good point, but at the same time, I would love to be with a guy who can just let loose on the dance floor! It makes for an interesting night Smiling

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:19pm Report Comment

JaimeLeah526 [+]

It's definitely not a turn off but I wouldn't say it turns me on either.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:25pm Report Comment

michelle c [+]

undecided, an annoying, goofy, legs and arms everywhere is not really attractive to me. But I love this jazz club I go to when I'm in Paris, and normally i go with girlfriends, but I'd love to take a guy with me and dance all night!

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:33pm Report Comment

TidalWave [+]

turn on!

Partner dancing with a guy who knows what he is doing is amazing! Being led is rather thrilling and having to communicate through glances and small grabs and squeezes and pinches is pretty neat. Being twirled around and stuff - it's fun, the guy is in control - an you can tell so much about a guy's personality by how good of a dancer he is.

Club dancing? Meh. As long as he has rhythm. Still a turn on though because I'd rather not be with a guy who just wants to stand there.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:37pm Report Comment

sunnyheart [+]

There is no bigger turn off than to be asked to an event like a dance or a wedding, and to get all dressed up only to discover your man hates to dance and refuses to dance with you. What was the point of asking me out? To me a refusal to dance just highlights an unwillingness to laugh at yourself, which is really unattractive to me.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:44pm Report Comment

gossipqueen [+]

I'll go with turn off...but if my guy can dance a little...is a plus. Eye-wink ...I know...confusing.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 12:48pm Report Comment

roseate [+]

turn on! if he's good (especially at partner dancing), then it's a definite turn on. if he's terrible but has fun with it, then he gets cuteness points.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 1:03pm Report Comment

Sydney C [+]

Turn on for sure. I don't mind that my guy can't club dance, but my god, he is from TX and can't even two-step properly.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 1:24pm Report Comment

bengalspice [+]

Oh I so wish my boyfriend would dance with me.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 1:25pm Report Comment

sb123 [+]

I think tidal wave nailed it.. it can be pretty hot when a guy leads!

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 1:58pm Report Comment

FoxyJo [+]

I ALWAYS say "If he can dance, he's a keeper!" Eye-wink My boyfriend NEVER used to dance before he met me but I myself come from a family who LOVES to dance, especially my dad! But once my man saw me break it down on the dance floor he knew he didn't want me dancing with anybody but him! Now, he dances with me almost every time we go out...he's actually not that bad! But yes I do agree with Sunnyheart...it SUCKS to get all dressed up and into the mood to dance (especially when the DJ plays your song) and not have anyone to dance with!! Sad Dancing= Major turn on!!

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 2:09pm Report Comment

bingkaycoy [+]

I don't know about this about the relation of "men who know how to dance" is a "total turn-on or off". Since I had dancing lessons at an early age and had dance with men and hang around with guys who are dancers, I don't see any "turn-on" or "turn-off" trait at all.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 2:09pm Report Comment

aimeeb [+]

I love it when men like to dance. Smiling

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 2:18pm Report Comment

Colleeninator [+]

My fiance and I are taking dance classes right now and I have to say, it's tons of fun and I love dancing with him, but in general a mans ability to dance doesn't affect me one way or another.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 2:21pm Report Comment

vmruby [+]

Not really a turn on but definitely a huge plus....... i love a man with rhythm.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 3:06pm Report Comment

emalove [+]

I love it!!! So fun. My husband will always get out there and dance with me. I couldn't deal with a guy who just sat on the sidelines the whole time.

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 3:16pm Report Comment

cakes7873 [+]

My mom's only piece of advice when it came to guys was "Never marry a guy who doesn't dance." She said even if he doesn't dance well, it shows that he's up for a good time and open to making a fool of himself. If he's open on the dance floor, it could translate to him being open in your relationship. Total turnON!!!

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 3:24pm Report Comment

rpenner [+]

100% agree with what Tidelwave said

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 3:48pm Report Comment

Sun_Sun [+]

my husband lovess LOVES LOVES to dance. and its great cuz hes fun to go out dancing with, but sometimes its annoying, cuz we HAVE TO DANCE ALL THE TIME. sometimes i just wanna sit down and watch Smiling
its not really a turn on for me neither a turn off

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 4:15pm Report Comment

megln1022 [+]

if he lik es to dance and has even a little rhythem its a good thing! if he doesn't have any then it can be painful lol

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 4:39pm Report Comment

seraphimm [+]

SSSSSSSSSSSmokin hot turn on!

but i'm very picky about which kinds of dancing.
if it's tango or jazz/lyrical... mehhh :[

but street, hip hop, funk on the other hand
HOTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!

oh and i love grinding w/ my bf at the club.
just another excuse to be dirty! hehe

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 4:52pm Report Comment

pink_magnetism [+]

Turn on, unless he is really, really bad. I was at salsa a couple of weeks ago, and I met this guy (who dances salsa btw) but he was the worst dancer I have ever seen! It was hard to believe a guy that takes dancing lessons wouldn't have at least a little rhythm!

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 4:55pm Report Comment

Muirnea [+]

I said undecided, because I think guys who dance are super sexy and a turn on, but I completely absolutely (like REALLY REALLY) suck at dancing, so it kind of sucks because I can't really dance with the guy, and it really just doesn't work out...I wish I could dance better, lol...I even went to a salsa class, and my body just doesn't have the ability to move like that apparently, lol lol. Oh well... Sticking out tongue

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 7:31pm Report Comment

Muirnea [+]

cakes7873, I love what you said, it sounds like it would be very true too. Laughing out loud

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 7:32pm Report Comment

Muirnea [+]

Ohhh, and I really really really really really agree with TidalWave too!!! Yes yes, very true, I feel the same way! Laughing out loud

Tue, 04/29/2008 - 7:35pm Report Comment

ninjastarlett [+]

Turn off for me because I'm not much of a dancer myself so it'd be really weird for me if the guy was totally into it and I wasn't into it at all. Still, no rhythm and a complete refusal to dance is turn off to me... hmm.

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 12:46am Report Comment

LadyP [+]

It's a definate turn on as long a she's not at the club every weekend!

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 3:07am Report Comment

chicaparati17 [+]

Especially MUSICA LATINA!!! Ay que rico! I love how my husband dances to latin music! It is soooooo sexy!

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 4:12am Report Comment

puddlesworth [+]

I agree it depends on the guy.

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 5:24am Report Comment

Martini Rossi [+]

turn on fo sho! I love to dance and I love it when guys know how to dance and enjoy dancing.

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 6:16am Report Comment

yadiet [+]

How can this be a turn off!! I wish my boyfriend danced! I'm Latin and there is nothing better than dancing to a good Salsa o Merengue. And he has two left feet!! SUcks.

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 6:45am Report Comment

pixelsugar [+]

Turn on for sure! I have a terrible time staying with a guy who does not dance.

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 7:07am Report Comment

LOVErickii [+]

turn on most definitely!!

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 7:55am Report Comment

mandy_frost [+]

I said undecided, but I'd say I'm leaning toward "off." I am VERY self-conscious when I dance and therefore don't ever do it, so I don't know why I'd want a guy who loves it.

Wed, 04/30/2008 - 11:10am Report Comment

Silverlining10 [+]

I've never liked guys who were dancers. They were smooth-talking, sort of cheesy, overly flirty guys that I got bored with. My boyfriend doesn't like to dance, isn't very good at it, and probably wouldn't do it in public, but randomly, he grabs me for a dance or twirls me while we're walking. That's sweet!

Fri, 05/02/2008 - 11:37pm Report Comment

ashleycheer [+]

Turn On!
There is nothing I don't love more than dancing.

Sat, 05/03/2008 - 10:39am Report Comment

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