My boyfriend and I have been together for almost four months, but have had feelings for each other for almost a year. We slept together for the first time about a month and a half ago and it was boring! It was plain old missionary and he finished and pulled out before I even got into it. Since then, nothing has changed and I'm worried that we've already fallen into a routine by a) almost skipping foreplay altogether and b) rarely changing positions. He never focuses on pleasuring me while we're having sex and while I understand that it's nearly impossible to continue sex after he's ejaculated, how can I communicate that I need satisfaction too without hurting his feelings?

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