Last year, I fell really hard for my best guy friend. He had feelings for me too but was also interested in another girl. I took a risk and told him how I felt, and he rejected me. He's been dating the other girl for about nine months. We are still extremely close, and he makes a lot of time for me in his schedule because we enjoy each other's company so much. However, my feelings regarding him have changed recently.
We've had a few very emotional talks in the past couple months, and I've realized that what I want isn't always good for me — I wouldn't even date him if he dumped his girlfriend and asked me out. I'm finding myself irritated with him more often, and I even feel sick when he talks about his girlfriend. When I'm not hanging out with him, I almost feel angry at him. Our friendship has never been better, and I'm so happy that I don't have feelings for him anymore, but is it normal that I resent him so much?
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