I'm sure you've all had your moments — you go out with friends, you have a drink before dinner, a drink with dinner, a few drinks after dinner, and before you know it you're more than a little tipsy. I don't know about you, but alcohol definitely makes me feel more free when it comes to my sexuality.
Now I'm not saying I make a habit out of having drunken sex, but alcohol can come in handy if you need some help lowering your inhibitions when becoming intimate with your partner, while being safe, of course!
So where do you stand on drunken sex? Do you think there's anything wrong with drinking and getting it on? Or would you be too worried about forgetting to use protection or saying and doing something you'd regret in the morning?









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I've done it a couple times, honestly, and I don't think I'd do it again. For the most part I had major regret issues the next morning. Plus, I just had this nasty used feeling.
1I mean, if you can get away with it, and enjoy it, then by all means go for it. It's just not for me.
yes. sometimes allows me to let go of some of my body inhibitions.
2i'd prefer it to be with someone i care about though...
I don't really like it. There are been a few times that my husband and I have indulged in a whole bottle of wine..and having a few after dinner drinks....while it makes you less inhibited...I can't seem to remember all that I'd like to. My husband is a very good lover and missing something is fun! Much better to have only a drink or two.
3this may tmi, but i find that bf and i have really fun drunk sex. it is usually accompanied with much sweeter morning sex, so having the wild evening romp is fun. this may not be the best thing, but a lot of stuff we have ended incorporating into our sex that is more taboo we started after drinking.
4i like drunken sex every once in a while with my bf...but i cant be too drunk or ill be too tired to be in the mood!
5Neither I nor my fiance drink, so no drunken sex. We both feel like, if you need alcohol to make you feel comfortable doing something, then you probably shouldn't be doing it in the first place.
6See...Drunk sex with strangers can lead to a girl crying rape the next morning when she realizes she doesn't much like her actions or the guy she slept with.. It turns into a "he took advantage of me" situation so I think it's bad news unless you can accept responsibility for your own actions
7I wouldn't go near drunken sex when I was single. However now that I am a married old hag I don't mind letting my inner freak come out when I am liquored up.
8Nope. I need to be sober and aware of what im doing. I dont put it beyond anyone to take advantage of me because of that.
9when i was single i did this a lot especially with my booty call. i once had a one night stand with a guy who flipped out in the middle of sex that he was cheating on his girlfriend and how horrible he was. heh that was really funny. but now with my bf okay never mind i just do the drunken hook up with him
10lol
I've only done this with my current boyfriend whom I've been with for a very long time.
However, I can't drink too much otherwise I get dizzy. Real dizzy.
11i never drink
12my husband never gets drunk
so i dont have an opinion
Drunk sex is the best!
Me and my boy have shared a bottle of wine and had some lovely inhibitions-down sex.
Always use protection. ALWAYS.
13Definitely not with some random person. When you're drunk you have no control over your decisions, and whether you use protection or not is a big problem! but with a husband or something you trust it can be exciting.
14I think a lot of girls who both drink and have sex have done it. The last time I did it, the next morning was pretty awkward because I hadn't know the guy that long and it was just...weird. I do have a few drunken incidents, though, that are probably the hottest I can remember. It totally depends on the situation.
15I dont drink, have never been drunk and only sleep with my bf so I've had no experience with this, however I have never wanted to... Too much potential trouble
16No. I'm perfectly comfortable having sex with my husband without the influence of some substance. My sexual/body inhibitions with him is non-existent. If we were to have drunken sex, it would be purely to see how sex is with our overly giggly behavior. However, we rarely drink in the first place.
17I'd rather have sex sober than drunk. I'm too afraid I'd be lax with protection, and I'd like to be able to remember things in the morning.
18i agree with kenziebaby. i think it's fun with my SO and loosens us both up.
19My boyfriend isn't a drinker, so there has never been the problem of worry about safety. Sometimes I'll have been out drinking with friends, and come in and get frisky, but we're always safe about it. Personally, I find it fun. As long as it's not the basis of your sex life and you're safe no problem!
20I don't mind tipsy sex with a significant other...But hooking up with random strangers when I'm drunk is just an excuse to have guilt-free sex. I've been DRUNK DRUNK before, but I always knew whether I was having sex or not, and I still kept my morals with me. Anything I won't do sober, I won't do drunk. I'm all for experimenting and doing fun, crazy things, but I have no shame in doing them sober.
21I've never had drunken sex with anyone except my boyfriend, but I don't really think that's the case for most people. From what I've seen with my friends, drunken sex almost never turns out to be a good thing and you do a lot of things you regret.
22I have definitely had a couple of one night drunken hook ups that I regretted in the past. With my fiance, sometimes it is fun to drink a bit. Too much is no good though because I just pass out before it can happen. I think it is good for women because it can get them more relaxed or in the mood. But not so much for men, because they may lose their stamina or erection!
23I guess I'm a bit of a prude perhaps, but I don't like the idea of having my judgment hampered. I just don't drink, so I would never have drunken sex. As said by some previously, with the SO, it would be fine, but I don't know why anyone would do that with a stranger.
24i cool with tipsy sex but not really into doing it when i'm blind. and i've only really done fairly drunk sex with my current bf (serious long term thing). only time we've been drunk drunk i fell asleep mid-thrust, poor guy. but tispy drunk sex is fun when you trust the other person
25My boyfriend and I are usually too tired when drunk to have sex! However, once in awhile it can be fun.
26I'm not one for casual sex, so I'd never hook up with someone I wasn't dating while drunk. But, drunk sex with a boyfriend or my hubby can be fun!
27drunken sex with someone ur committed to can be fun. but it shouldnt be a necessity.
28I dont drink very often and when I dont I never ever get drunk, So drunken sex would never happen to me. If it did it would be with my fiance which is alright with me.
I have a friend who just gave birth to her first child. He was conseived during drunk sex.
29i enjoy drunken sex with my boyfriend. it always makes it a little more intense, loosens us up (even though we dont really need it) and ALWAYS guarantees for a fun time in the sheets. lol we get really goofy and arent afraid to say what we feel.
30i had a few irresponsible drunken hook ups back in the day - being drunk helped me to let down my inhibitions but i always ended up feeling like i made a big mistake the next day. not because of the drinking or the sex, but because i was looking for a relationship and the guy was only looking for sex. ugh.
now that i'm engaged, generally when my finace and i get tipsy one of us passes out before we can do anything....lol how things change!
31Wow, I'm so the opposite...I barely ever have sex with my bf if I haven't been drinking. Alcohol seems to be the only thing that gives me even some sort of a sex drive.
32I love drunk sex!
33I do not drink, ever. Mr. Goose does not drink, either. We only share sex with each other -- so, no drunk sex for us.
Sober sex has always been good for me, so I guess I don't need a helping substance to lube the experience. I'm in command of my sexuality and my body; I have very little inhibition with my Goose. I'm open and he is enthusiastic.
I guess we're fortunate.
34Hehe...my husband and I love this!
35My boyfriend and I tend to have a lot of really drunk sex. We love sober sex too, if not more, but since we're long distance, when I come to visit everyone is always excited and we all go out and party all weekend. We can't have sex in the day time because my boyfriend's roommates are all around all day long, so we only have the night, and by that time, we've been out party hopping or visiting friends for a few hours. If it wasn't for drunk sex, though, who knows if we would have ended up together? We have been good friends for years but fell out of touch when we went away to college, and the first night he came back this past summer he invited me over to hang out and drink with our old group of friends, and one thing lead to another, and we ended up having sex that night. The whole day afterwards was like, oh my god, I can't believe we had sex? I had sex with him? But it wasn't necessarily negative thinking, I was just really shocked. Anyway, we continued hooking up every night and often during the day too whenever we were alone, sneaking kisses as soon as people left the room, until we finally admitted to ourselves that we had fallen for each other, and now we're coming up on one year together, happy as can be!
36i attend UCSB. and they call it the university of casual sex and beer for a reason! unfortunately it happens a little more than it should...
37i make TERRIBLE sexual decisions when i'm drunk. i much prefer making love with my boyfriend completely sober.
38Drunk random sex ... NO. A few glasses a wine and then getting wild with your man from time to time SURE why not. Usually wine = bow chicka wow wow with us anyway
... If you have a good healthy relationship I think drunk sex doesnt matter. I prefer sober though.
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