I know it can be pretty frustrating and make you feel a little self-conscious when your man just isn't in the mood to get it on, but like I said yesterday, there are definitely some reasons why men don't want to have sex. Here are five more.

  1. Disagreements with one's mate: Who wants to hug, kiss, and roll around under the covers with someone they're upset with? A man, just like a woman, may be so angry with his partner that he doesn't want to be anywhere near them. Or he may withhold sex from his partner as a form or punishment or tactic to get what he wants.
  2. Stress: If your man is stressed about money, home, his sick grandfather, or your kids then you know what's on his mind, and unfortunately, it's not sex.
  3. He masturbates on his own: I don't think there's anything wrong with masturbating while you're in a relationship, but when masturbation takes the place of sex with the person you're dating or married to, problems will no doubt arise.

To hear the last two reasons read more.

  1. Fear of intimacy: Ahh, the buzz words. Well it's true, some guys have a fear of getting close and having sex with someone is the ultimate form of love and expression. You may have to have a little patience (or a lot), and wait until your guy gets to know you better so he can feel comfortable with the idea of being that connected to you.
  2. Difficulties functioning sexually: With all the commercials out there for drugs to help with impotence, it's no secret that men are having physical problems getting aroused. Some men may also have problems orgasming too soon, or too late, or not at all.

Dear's Advice: If any of these reasons sound all too familiar to you, make sure you're openly communicating with your man (in a sensitive and understanding way, of course). In order to get through this, it's important that you're both honest about what you need and how you feel.

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