4/5

Yay with some YAY on top!!

Im a fan. If done the right way, its all kinds of pleasure.

You definitely have to be very careful, use tons of lube and protection ladies!

holy crap! (punny me)

Anal sex is fabulous if you do it right and with someone you really trust, etc. My ex and I used to do it all the time and I miss it terribly!

Not for me. I had a colonoscopy at the age of 19 and that was horrific enough.

It's a one way street.

Wiki says that incontinence is a risk of anal ... so how is that a myth?

Okay, so I agree that when done right, with plenty of lube, anal sex is definitely pleasurable. I enjoyed it immensely with an ex of mine. But I do think the size of the penis matters. The ex had a nice size penis but it was on the smaller side. My man and I have tried it a few times, with plenty of lube, but he is still way too big for me to get any pleasure out of it. To anyone who hasn't tried, I'd definitely say give it a try with a guy you trust.

Wiki says: 'incontinence has been reported' then goes on to say that a 1997 study found no difference in levels of incontinence between homosexual men that engaged in anal sex and those that did not - then went on to criticize an earlier study (with a sample of only 40 men!) that suggested otherwise.

I'm sure if you're a porn star that specializes in anal sex, there's a chance you could do some damage - but done correctly (lots of lube and not while you're numbed up with drugs or alcohol), you should be fine.

Eh... I've tried it and it didn't do anything for me. Boyfriend loved it though. To me, it just felt kind of like I was taking a crap - over and over again. I'm sorry, but that's really how it felt!!

rpenner, i experienced the opposite with penis size and anal sex, which tells me that it has more to do with the man attached to the penis than the penis itself.

the most uncomfortable and painful anal sex i ever had was with a smaller-penis guy with tons of lube.
the best anal sex i've had was with a much larger guy with only my own spit for lube.

really, lube doesn't matter if you have already orgasmed. and you should always orgasm at least once before trying anal. It relaxes you a lot and makes it a ton more enjoyable!

wow i made paerfect score...am SHOCKED that i know soo much about anal sex...hmmm who would have thought?

lol @ sunshowers. I know exactly how you feel! here's a hint: try it with you on top next time

really tidalwave? cause it hurt too much to even get the penis in. there was no actual anal sex happening and believe me, we were taking it slow. but I will keep that in mind and perhaps we'll keep trying!

ladies ive tried with a few bf's and it hurt to even continue! one bf was small, one was big.. and they both hurt! i couldnt do it. maybe im doing something totally wrong!

Your butt is an out door, nothing should be going IN there!! I think that's why its so risky. I've never done it, but to each his own.

Each to their own.

You can get pregnant from anal sex?!?! Bengalspice I don't think you can become incontinent because of anal sex normally. But on the news recently there was a woman in Africa who was kidnapped and raped for years and she became incontinent and paraplegic It was really sad.

"i said what what in the butt".... i gotta crack some jokes.

eh, wikipedia isn't a reliable source. it's cool to click around on it, though, but if you find something on there you want to state as fact, i'd find some other website to back it up as well.

Never tried it... and not sure I want to.

ok, you can get pregnant from anal sex in the same way you can from mutual masturbation. granted, close to the 'lady business' (HA!) but still, how common is that???

Sodomy is not good.

Just to clarify - I wasn't presenting wiki as solid fact, I was responding to bengalspice, who incorrectly interpreted what wiki stated.

5/5-But I'm not a fan.

LOL aujah! that was the first thing I was thinking!
"what what? in the butt! You wanna do it in my butt? In my butt? what what? in the butt!"

lol, now it's going to be stuck in my head XD

First and foremost, you have to be relaxed in order for it to feel any good. If you're already adverse to it, chances are that it will be painful. I've only been with one man - my husband. We were both new to it but wanted to try it out. He did his research. We experimented first with narrow toys before he made any attempts himself. He was as careful doing me anally as the first night he, well, took my virginity. So, really, when you first have anal sex, treat the experience like the first time you had sex.

I got 5/5

4/5...Never tried, but would be open to it.

Im telling ya, the secret is to have a couple of drinks first so you are nice and relaxed...there's no way that I would ever do it if I hadn't had a few cocktails first!

aujah, love the south park jokes This is a personal preference and for me, different with every guy.

hmmmmmmmmm

I honestly didn't know you could get pregnant from anal sex...But it doesn't make sense not to use a condom during anal sex, so that should be less of a problem...I mean, if people can get UTI's after intercourse, pregnancy after anal sex doesn't seem too far off.

I've tried to have anal sex...My boyfriend and I used a condom, a condom with extra lube added on it, and just a penis with lots of lube, but it JUST wont go inside. It hurts too bad, and when my boyfriend used a special anal dildo, it must have ripped something in my anus because I didn't feel it, but I was bleeding! It didn't even go all the way in...

Whoah...Excuse my over-zealous use of "anal sex." Maybe subconsciously, I just love the term.

Sydney C, I agree that's the secret! I was d-r-u-n-k the first time I did it. I must admit that I love it. Gotta start slow, but then it's great.

NO, no, no I tried it once for like a second, I will never ever do it again, it was painful (and I was relaxed) and I really did not like the feeling at at all. I don't really understand how any woman could like it. I can see with gay guys because men have a prostate gland up there, but with women, it always seems like something guys are really into and women just agree to it for them. I'm sorry, but I think it's unnatural and also more risky in terms of contracting STD's because the skin is more likely to tear.

sunshowers83 That is always how I imagined it. 4/5 I didn't know pregnancy was possible but I guess if they end up in the wrong place it could happen.

Thank you sunshowers! I agree completely. I just wish there was no such thing as anal sex so that my boyfriend wouldn't be so damn interested in it. I tried it, but it SO not for me. Ugh.

I never tried it, but I would like to do it someday.
If I like it, then I'll have another way to get pleasure, which I believe is always good because it provides more variation.
And if I don't like it, then well, they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Of course i got questions 3 and 4 right but that was it!!

I'm so glad I found this post!!
My boyfriend is obsessed w/ anal sex. We've tried it twice and it hurt both times. I was drunk the first time which helped but it just feels WEIRD!!!! Don't like it, don't want to try it again.
I think my boyfriend needs something up HIS butt!

4/5 And I'm still a virgin in both areas lol.

I am a virgin too and 4/5.

Yes, I agree. You have to be really relaxed and comfortable with the other person. For me it helps to have 'regular sex' first. A glass of wine might help too, if you're nervous.

Also, it's important to poo before hand. If you don't it can be really uncomfortable and messy. Try drinking some coffee or taking a laxative a few hours before.

One more thing...saliva makes the best lube. I used to think it was gross, but it really does work and feels the best too.

5/5 and I enjoy anal. It's not my favourite type of sex, but I actually did get off with just anal sex (i.e. without clitoral stimulation). I think that the best thing to do is to just relax, use a lot of lube, and again RELAX I mean, it's not for everyone, but trust me, relaxing and trusting your partner will help immensely.

Knew them all but more importantly I know that the crapper is a utilitarian orifice. Who thinks "Hey let's ram that tiny, non lubricating crap keeper? Sounds like a plan!"

Such an easy quiz but I still hate anal sex....

Man, my boyfriend likes to joke about how the best present in the world would be a bow on my bum. I am TERRIFIED of anal sex due to having a jerk guy in the past pretend to accidentally "slip" into the wrong hole. I thought I was going to pass out!

If anyone says that anal sex is not painful, they are full of sh*t. They either never had anal sex, or they have it so often that their anus opened up in diameter and they feel nothing anymore. I am not against anal sex, but it does hurt. And, if the case is that most guys don't know how to do it, then that's the case. Guys do not know how to do it, and they really don't care to find out. All they care for is their own pleasure. So, yes expect it to hurt.