So I've given you some tips for being on the top [1], but good old missionary position (guy on top) is also a fan favorite! The guy being on top can give a man a real sense of control and dominance, which can be very arousing to a woman, but since you're not doing much of the moving around, here are some tips to make being on the bottom more exciting.
- Place a pillow under your bum. It'll help to tilt your pelvis, making it easier for your man to stimulate you [2]. Lifting your pelvis up also helps to naturally engage your Kegel muscles, which will make sex more pleasurable for both of you.
- Try actively squeezing your Kegel muscles to intensify the sensations even more. Either hold them and then release, or practice rhythmically contracting and releasing.
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- Try adjusting the position of your legs to change where you feel the sensations. They can be straight on the bed; bent at the knees with your feet close to your bum; or lifted with your legs up and your feet on your man’s chest or over his shoulders. You can also try one leg up and one leg down.
- Since your man is on top and doing most of the moving, make sure you're communicating your needs as well.
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