It's a sensitive subject. Women are good communicators as a rule, but we often hesitate to be frank about how we like things in the sex department. Sometimes it's a matter of not knowing exactly what we want and hesitating to make that understood as well. It's our privilege as women to be responsible for our pleasures and needs. I encourage you to relax, communicate, and explore!
To check out two really terrific books, one for him and one for her, about improving your sex life and improving communication about your sex life, click here and here.
But as it stands now, ladies, how's your oral sex life? Singles, you can play, too . . . just think about the last boyfriend with whom you were intimate.
Giuseppe Zanotti
Shiseido
theOutnet
We both really enjoy being with eachother, and really enjoy pleasing one another. It's not done EVERY time, as that becomes mundane. Nobody asks for it either as that puts pressure on if you want to or not. We've become more adventurous and both better at doing it all with one another.
1There should be a choice of "My Favorite Thing To Do!" :0)
2I'll remember that next time, OhMy!
3I always miss him when he's down there. Like I just crave his nearness or something. He's always willing - I just rarely am super excited about it.
4I agree with pop. I like the closeness of kissing. Its just not my favorite.
5when he does it well, it's sooo amazing. but when he doesn't, i just enjoy it for what it is and bring him up for some air sooner than later.
i actually really like doing it to him just because he actually responds to it and doesn't just sit there like a limp fish like some other guys.
6Love it! choice #1 for me
7My husband is great...I'm just the uncomfortable one. I always feel like I"m torchering him when he does it...it can't be something guys "truely" enjoy, they do it for their women. I give him more pleasure than I let him give me.
8It's great when we're both into it and we're "on" -- but there are those times when he is "too tired" that really upset me. I absolutely love having sex with him and want it every day, and am disappointed when he doesn't feel like it, and when I'm dissapointed he feels guilty and then everything is weird... OYE!
9#1 for me. My husband could live down there. So, if anyone is thinking guys don't like doing this..I have never come across one that didn't..so, relax and enjoy.
10JustMe21 - you are not alone - I totally feel the same way. I totally don't mind giving him oral sex, in fact I kind of crave doing it for him sometimes, but I feel awkward when the roles reverse.
11Yeah what's up with this? I totally crave doing it to him a lot but I kinda get bored some times of getting it myself. After having my baby, things down there improved like no one's business
the feeling intensified and it feels great, but for some reason i still rather be
the giver
12I'm only have sex when I get married. You guys should have a vote thing for that!!!!!
13My hub has the skills to pay the bills
BB- go girl!!!!!!!!!
14Not my favorite, I get bored, too, or feel like he doesn't like it. I prefer to give and I'd rather be kissing over anything.
at jgasia!!!
15I'm with you BB. My husband does it every single time~he'd live there if he could* Yaaay for super clean tooties!
16My man is great at it!
17My husband is great at it.
18I'm very lucky
19Ummmm, believe it or not, but i am against both. I dont see anything wrong with it, if that is what makes you happy. I am proud for all of you.
20My hubby-to-be and one of the guys I've dated past, LOVE it. Truly love it. So there are guys who are ok with it, and there really are guys that enjoy it, so if you have one of them, don't feel guilty!! My honey is good at it and wants it more than I do!
21I love oral sex and i think he loves it too.
22We like making love better than oral sex. He drives me wild with his awesome moves. I'm so lucky to have a Wonderful Husband.
23Hi Hope thank you for your email. For me and my boyfriend, oral sex is just one part of love making.
24He truely love's to give it more than i love to receive it. At first i kept saying no but the poor thing just didn't let go until i just let go
He's realy helped me relax, and he's always asking me if he can give me oral sex.
25my bf's really good at it... i actually prefer it more than sex... ahahah!
26Mine is good at it but doesn't care much for the taste so he doesn't really offer but he does it when I ask for it once in a while... as for him, he loves it! =P
It's good when we have it but we usually go straight for sex
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