Dear Sugar
I watched a lesbian porno with my boyfriend and I got turned on. Now, my boyfriend thinks that I am bisexual and that I am denying it. But it's not true at all. I just think that women are beautiful. I was only turned on because of the sex in the movie, not because I was attracted to the women.
Now I feel really embarrassed. Do you think this is normal? Aroused Arielle
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Dear Aroused Arielle
Pornography is intended to sexually stimulate the viewer. Anyone who was watching MTV on the night of the Britney/Madonna kiss thought it was HOT - and if they deny it, they're lying. So no, I don't think that you are a lesbian, bisexual or even a little bit gay, I simply think the movie successfully served it's purpose.
Your boyfriend is playing a mind game with you. Tell him that unless he stops taunting and teasing you, that you are closed to explore any new sexual avenues with him...that will shut him up!
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The film had a sexual element so it was bound to turn you on...It was probably the act and not that fact that it was 2 girls that turned you on...or the fact that you were watching a porno with your boyfriend....I think him thinking you are bisexual is probably wishing thinking on his part so he can get a live show.
1Trust me sweetie, your boyfriend definitely does not think you are bi! I agree with Sugar b/cuz he is definitely playing mind games...Sugar's advice is on point.
I think he is being a lil immature by not being up-front though...if he wants to be more open sexually than he should just talk to you about and try to make you more comfortable.
2Opps I made a mistake...I meant *talk to you about it*...sorry
3My bf tried to pull the same thing. I came to the conclusion that he just WISHED I were bi, at least for a night. That way it would be easier for him to ask to bring in another woman or something. He didn't, but the thought of me being bi makes the conversation a lot easier. Your bf may be on the same thing my guy was on. It is definitely a mind game. Put him in check before it gets out of hand.
4wishful thinking on his part. it doesn't sound like you're bi
5I agree doesnt sound like you are bi.. more girls than you think watch porn with there partners and get turned on. but i do have to say madge and brit kiss so not hot.. and im not lying.
6Britgirl...you aint lying I watch porn with my boyfriend and I am not ashamed of it and the Britney Madonna kiss was LAME and tame
7I like classy porn, no hardcore scary stuff. My stomach can't take strong violent type porn it's just terrible.
8maybe your boyfriend wishes you were .a lot of men have that fantasy with 2 women .if you've never felt any attraction what so ever towards another woman in your daily life then no you aren't bi .the porn just turned you on with all the sex ;p
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