i'm a highschooler at a small private school and for the past year i've
been crushing on this guy 2 years older than me. since he's a sr and im a
sophomore, we have no classes together therefor have never been
introduced or anything to that sort. however, i'm not exactly the only one
who seems to be crushing in my friends opinions. we have this intense
intense eye contact 24/7. at the weight room after school yesterday, i
went to work out & he came in 10 minutes later. there were many situations
that made me question his motifs. for example, id go to machine 2 and hed
go to machine 3 right next to me, id go get water, hed come in a minute
later to get water. just little things like that. and whenver id look
over, hed be looking at me and awkwardly put his down to the side. he also
happens to be on of my brothers friends so i already know he knows my name
as i do his. but the thing is, although i always have these intense
intense eye catching moments w/ him and bumping into him all the time, im
wondering if its even anything to be excited about. hes also painfully shy
& apparently according to my friends, theyve never seen him do this to
anyone else. idk if im just taking this all wrong or overreacting but
would love your opinion & advice on the situation. i also sent him a
message over facebook over xmas break & he never replied so im not really
keen on the whole messaging and would rather him make the first move, but
please, advice on what to do next & asap because he graduates and leaves
to out of state college in a few months, so the clock is ticking!!! please
please please advice!! thank you soo much