I badly need advice about what to do with my marriage. The short story is that my husband and I have been married for about 15 years (we married really young), we have a four year old that we both adore but we haven't had sex in nearly three years. I just don't know that I am attracted to him in that way anymore. We co-exist well together, although when we fight it usually ends up being a major blow-out. He is such a great father to our son and I really want to love him again but I just don't know what happened to us. I was discussing this with a friend recently and she made the comment that "Love is a choice," basically saying that if I just make up my mind that I love him, find him sexually stimulating, and make myself behave like I once did, eventually I will believe it. I have been trying for the past few weeks but I am not noticing a change in my feelings yet. What do you think — can this possibly work? Any other suggestions or advice?

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