The results are in, and I can't say that I'm too surprised that being dominated surpassed all the other choices with a whopping 53 percent victory. Though I must say that almost famous's fantasy, hot sex in Summer rain, certainly doesn't sound bad either! Perhaps we ladies are just more creative! To check out the ranking in Men's Health, read more.
- Stimulating yourself while he watches
- Being dominated
- Having sex in public
- Making a sex video
- Threesome with another woman
I find it really fascinating that Men's Health number one was our very last choice, coming in below "other" with only three percent of votes. I guess we prefer it when he's in control — at least when it comes to sex. According to the article, being dominated allows women to act out the forbidden fantasy of becoming an object of desire. Do you agree? For those of you who voted it as your fave, what is it about domination that's such a turn on?
Giorgio Fedon
Soul Cal
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Dear Sugar, I have it ALL mapped out too!
Him coming home with that hot chocolate or bronzed body (I'm still single so don't know which one yet,lol) Making out heavily outside in our backyard. The sunshine sparkling through each rain drop as he latches on to my neck leaving blissful kisses. His hands rubbing my back as I enjoy every moment. Ahh... it's like cold champagne on a hot afternoon!
1sounds delicious, almost famous.
hahaha
2I don't think I can post my actual fantasy here!
3But I voted for 'public place', since that's the only thing left.
^^^ sorry excuse for a grown woman...*rolls eyes*
4Continue to post in different names loser!
AlmostFamous you should write a spicy story for us to read! That's a great description... yowza!
I think the domination fantasy has to do with the idea of a "safe surrender". To give over control and have it be a good thing.
It makes me wonder what the #1 fantasy was for our great-great-great grandmas.
& btw TFS...
5you can take your judgement of others and shove it where the sun won't shine.
grown woman? im only 21.lol :]
6im not juding love. im giving my opinion. same as the rest. :]
& btw dont delete my comments, thats rude.
7And btw its actually true what i originally state.
women feel the need to be "dominated" when there is no sexual or emotional partner in their life. its basic human nature. Ask any physiologist.
as for the last 3, they are all attention grabbers. And people who feel left out of lonely will seek mutual attention.
really its very basic human logic.
8Blech...
I was thinking how this could develop into a really interesting convo about sexuality and the modern woman.
Oh well!
For the record...
A "physiologist" studies the way things work.
I think you meant Psychologist.
Logically speaking - domination fantasies would be about control not lonliness.
I find it impossible to believe that 53% of all the women that answered the quiz are lacking a "sexual or emotional partner in their life".
9That's an over-simplification, way-way over.
nope i ment physiologist.:] because ive been studying it for years lolz.;]
10How can studying the functions, properties, and bio-chemical processes of animals and plants (their tissues, organs, and cells) give you such concrete insight into the origin of a specific sexual fantasy held by a percentage of your fellow Sugar Network users?
It's not that bio-chemistry has nothing to do with sexuality, but I don't see how the study of one makes you knowledgeable on the other.
That makes as much sense as the "Sexual Fantasies of Tomatoes"!!
Cite your sources, please.
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