I have been broken up with my ex for two and a half years, but I still love him. He is dear to my heart in so many ways. I loved everything about him. The problem was that we were in a long distance relationship. I didn't mind all of the things that came along with long distance, but he did. He said it hurt him that we couldn't be together, and it hurt him that I always had to make the trip because he played on a college sports team which required his week days and weekends at school or traveling.

I started seeing my current boyfriend about five months after the break up. At first it was all about having fun, but I do love him now; however, it feels more like platonic love, than being crazy in love. He is perfect in many ways, but he doesn't give me butterflies. I saw my ex recently. He and I have never talked face to face about our break up because it happened over the phone. When I see him now I get this strange feeling that there is unfinished business. Of course, I want to talk about everything, and find out what's he feeling, but I can't bring myself to do it.

Should I just move on and try to work things out with my boyfriend? Shouldn't I be over this break up by now? Maybe if I talked to him I would get closure. Any words of wisdom?

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