I want his attention devoted to me the whole night. If he keeps looking at many different women the whole night that tells me that he might not be faithful in the future. I know all me look at women, but still not on the first date.

I don't really care if he's taking an occasional glance at someone's chest-it's not desirable behavior but it happens. But I would honestly be offended if he kept bringing up sexual things in our FIRST conversation. I'm not prude-I actually talk about sex and kind of gross things with my close friends all the time. But on a first date, yuck. I just think that it is disrespectful talk about things that are obviously making someone uncomfortable.

I chose "That", because if he's everything I written on paper, him checking out other women would actually hurt worst.

Yeah, if he's checking out all the other women in the room on the FIRST date then its usually not a good sign. So I picked that.

I think the sex talk would be worse. If he did either of these things, there is no way he's getting a second date, but at least I could focus on my food while he's checking out the other women. There's no way to tune out the dirty talk.

I figure I could always try to steer the conversation elsewhere, whereas I probably wouldn't have the nerve to say something about the fact that he's not giving me his full attention.
Tough choice.

That — His attention is devoted to you, and the other 40 women in the room.

I picked that - it's a first date, so I am basically interviewing and not fully vested as of yet.

It would definitely be worse if he checked out every chick in the place. The sex talk I can handle.

Men are men and I can deal with him gawking at other women. Better that than him making me feel like I'm nothing but a vagina and boobs on a pair of legs.

i chose THIS... the r-rated conversation would make me uncomfortable which leads to awkward moments and the desire to flee the entire night. no thanks

i could deal with him looking at other women. i never get jealous over guys that im not in a relationship with. its rude, but he isnt really mine so its fair game. lol

If he's already looking elsewhere, that's enough to make me not want a second date!

I hate guys who talk about sex ALL THE TIME. Occasionally? Fine, but when it's a constant topic of conversation, we're over.

gosh... creepy sex talk is so much worst to me that a guy checking out other women. if he is checking out others im like "oh well what a dork, not gonna go out with him again" if the sex talk is going on i am thinkging "oh my god how am i going to get out of this date. what a perv". so thats that.

btw... my bf ALWAYS checks out hot girls. if one is extra hot he will point her out to me. he like eye candy and so do i.

well both suck and i would choose not to see him again , so at least if hes checking out other women i dont have to be so uncomfortable during our first and only date

wow it's a very close vote. i chose "that" because checking out 40 other women on the first date is a huge blow to the ego. it just tells me that i'm not hot enough.

They're both equally bad. I've actually knew a man who did BOTH of those things! Gross.

I know how to change the subject, and if it annoys me enough, I can just leave. I have no patience, though, for outright disrespect. Staring at other women constantly is just plain RUDE, and I might have to put his damn eyes out with the salad fork for that crap.