I'm a huge supporter of masturbation, and just like sex, I don't consider it dirty or wrong. Not only is it great to be able to pleasure yourself, but when you know what you like, you can better communicate that to your partner.
When you're single, masturbating is a healthy way to release sexual tension (and can even relieve headaches and help you sleep), but what do you think about it when you're in a relationship? I mean it's not like you spend every waking minute together, so is it wrong to pleasure yourself when you're apart? Would you be upset if you found out your significant other was having that same kind of fun without you? Do you think your partner would be upset if he knew you were masturbating without him? Share your thoughts in the comment section below.
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I don't see anything wrong with masturbation during a relationship. I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend, and I encourage him to masturbate, I do! I prefer he takes care of his "business" on his own than with someone else.
1Even if we were not in a long distance relationship, I don't think I would mind at all.
There's nothing wrong with it in a relationship. Honestly if there's any woman with a man that thinks it's odd. Then there's something wrong with him. however, there are some men have big egos like that though!
2I don't think it's possible for men NOT to masturbate regularly.
For men or women, I don't see anything wrong with masturbating while in a relationship.
3Normal and healthy.
4The only time that it's a problem is when it takes away from your sexual relationship together. And if that's the case, there's other problems that need to be solved.
5Seems normal and healthy to me.
6I don't see a problem with it. I find it helps me relax when I'm stressed out or haven't been sleeping well and I can't have sex with my guy.
7It's all good.
8I don't see anything wrong with it!
9If fro some VERY ODD reason my bf and I don't have sex one day...I usually will "release some tension" myself!
I need too haha!
I personally don't do it, but there is certainly nothing wrong with it.
10No way! My BF thinks its hot! haha he actually um... enjoys watching sometimes.
11I personally don't like it in a relationship, but that's probably because I flat don't out understand the need for masturbation. I'm not the product of some super religious family that believes it is wrong, I just personally never ever saw the appeal and the thought of it just kind of weirds me out. But, I also understand that I am probably the only person who feels this way on the subject!
12Nothing wrong with it!
13My boyfriend loves to watch me masterbate, he'll hold my hand and kiss my neck. It's part of our fore play before sex. We do a little of everything before sex. It turns him on so much when I touch myself for him, which of course turns me on. Sex was so amazing the other night, O my God! haha
14My boyfriend loves to watch me masterbate, he'll hold my hand and kiss my neck. It's part of our fore play before sex. We do a little of everything before sex. It turns him on so much when I touch myself for him, which of course turns me on. Sex was so amazing the other night, O my God! haha
15we both love it and dont see anything wrong with it. We uh....enjoy lending a helping hand to each other....haha...
16I pushed post only once, why did I double comment!
17perfectly normal and healthy
18I'm with LikeThoseShoes, my ex loved loved watching me masturbate. He'd join me sometime and other times we'd watch porn and do it to each other. Its a way of life, so what the hell right especially if you're getting pleasure out of it.
19Doesn't bother me at all. I'd rather he do it himself than feel like he's not getting it enough. We don't live together, so I have no problem with him pleasuring himself when I'm not around. It's better than the alternative, that's for sure!!
20Lol If I didn't masturbate in a relationship we'd have problems so I def. am not going to limit my boo. Do what you got to.
21Very normal and healthy......I don't see anything wrong with it whether you're in a relationship or not.
22I think it's fine in a relationship unless if masturbation becomes your preferred activity. If you'd rather masturbate than have sex with your partner, something is very wrong.
23sex with someone else is great, but nobody does it like me
24I get a whole different kind of satisfaction from one vs. the other, and I like both. I'm not going to deny myself that form of happy. lol
25I personally don't think it makes a difference whether you're in a relationship or not. If you're in the mood and no one's around, you gotta do what you gotta do. :]
26yeah sure, it's perfectly fine!
27Totally healthy, especially since women can take so long to have an orgasm. Why should the guy feel pressured to "make it happen." SOmetimes sex is a great thing to share with someone else, but it doesn't always end in fireworks.
28perfectly normal, in fact, my ex used to really get off watching me
29i encourage it - for him and me!
30I think it's okay as long as it doesn't take presidence over sex with your significant other.
31Nope! We both do it and couldnt care less or take it personally about each other. Its not that serious!
32I think it's healthy. My sexuality is MINE. I could enjoy it by myself, or share it with my husband. Likewise, I have the same view towards his sexuality.
33And if you think about it, a healthy male should be ejaculating at least 5 times a week (and that's to benefit from possibility of cancers!) and if you don't plan on having that much sex, then that's a damn good medical reason for it:) But i think it's perfectly natural and welcomed, sometimes i want it when i am in the mood, and he'll be at work, or sleeping or for any number of reasons our schedules won't line up, so we please ourselves. Everyone SHOULD do it, it's natural, healthy, and can actually help out your sex life b/c you get more in tuned with your body and open a world of opportunities.
34You're not alone, julieulie. I feel the same way.
35We both masturbate at least once a day, together or not. I consider it personal time, a way we make ourselves feel good -- but doing it while the other watches is fun, too.
36There's nothing wrong with that, as a matter of fact if you can be comfortable enough to do it in front of your partner... oh the possibilities!
37that would be taking jealousy to a whole new ridiculous level! seriously, being jealous of your partner's HAND??! if someone got upset about that i'd be really worried. and if a boyfriend of mine got upset about something like that, i wouldn't stick around long.
38Nothing wrong with at all, as long as you and your partner are having sex too
39i don't see anything wrong with it, whether you're in a relationship or not =]
40Theres NOTHING wrong with it! Hey, if guys can do it, why cant we!? And, in the words of Addison(private practice) youve gotta scratch the itch!
41Nothing wrong with it ..I think its healthy. We're not living together and it definitely helps one to sleep and eases tension on some days. Also it can be done by your partner. For us that works coz we're waiting till we get married
42Nothing wrong with masterbating while in a relationship. Nothing wrong with masterbating with your partner present, watching or assisting. My boyfriend is 3000 miles away, so yes, I masturbate almost every night that I'm not with him. But I stop for a while before I am going to see him to kind of build up the sexual tension. Now he - rarely masterbates, but I certainly don't mind when he does.
43Heres a question if you are in a loving relatinship and i mean a really loving one and you love your girlfriend/boyfriend to bits, but when masturbating occasionally think of someone else, but wouldent ever have sex with the person/people you thought of is it wrong? Even though you know you love your girlfriend/boyfriend and only want to have sex with them.
44Basicly should you feel guilty or ashamed, almost like you have cheated on them in some way?
45yes that is wrong I think if you want someone else you are not satisfied and maybe you still need time to play the field.
46I masturbate in private and I masturbate my hubby all the time. That's fun for both of us. He refuses to touch himself as far as I know, as often as I do it for him I doubt there is much left for him to do even if he does it in secret.
47What about when your in a relationship with him for over 8 years with two kids, and you always had a good sex life then all of a sudden he doesn't want sex and yet YOU do every night if I could but i'm lucky if we do it once every two weeks. Before we use two twice a day.
48Now I he wakes up early to just masterbate, and even tried to do it when I'm sleeping beside him, but denies it the next day.?? What about this, this can't be healthy I'm starting to feel sexual frustrated.
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