I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now and everything is perfect except for one thing, I am way mor sexual and adventurous than he is. We both took each others virginity and lately I have been fantasizing about other guys. One of my biggest fears is divorce and I would hate to ruin our perfect relationship later down the line because of finally acting on these thoughts. He would be totally crushed and my wholoe family adores him as well. If we took a break for my purely sexual reasons it would totally break his heart but thats basically teh only reason I would want a break. Is this totally selfish and stupid? I'm only 21 and could see myself easily marrying this man but having only him as a partner is driving my thoughts crazy!! Someone help please!