We all make mistakes from time to time, even when it comes to our love lives, but have you ever actually been embarrassed about someone you've spent the night with? Have you ever walked by your one night stand on the street and avoided eye contact at all costs? Even if you're the kind of person who tells your friends all the juicy details of your sex life, let me ask you this: Have you ever been too ashamed of someone you've been intimate with to tell even your best friend?
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Have You Ever Been Too Ashamed to Tell Your Friends?
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no, but i really wish i had kept my mouth shut! they'll never let me forget my bad judgement ...BAD MOVEEEE on my part though
1Nope haha!
2I try and keep to my standards
Probably only just once...and only because he was my height and I wasnt comfortable with it. How silly, huh? (mind u, I'm about 5'3")
3Sure. Some things are not meant to be shared. LOL
4Not really... I just save some details for myself.
5Yeah.... he was good in bed though.
6i cant imagine i would ever do that, ive only ever been with my husband, lol!
7Hmmm nothing I can recall, I'd expect my close friends not to judge me, we all have some skeletons.
8No! I have standards!
9Well, I wasn't intimate with my ex. Regardless, I was ashamed of him because he was an irresponsible *sshole with no ambition in life.
10I can think of a couple bad choices I've made (including an ex boyfriend)... I'm embarrassed, but my best friend knows (because she's made the same mistakes and then some)
11Only once.. when I started dating a younger guy & jumped into bed waaaay before I should have.
12oooooh yes.
13
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14I tell my best friend everything. But I wouldn't tell ALL of my close friends - just my BEST friend. We don't judge each other.
15I always keep details to myself - but I've never regretted any of my actions.
16I have this problem with a few women. They don't know how not to judge. They switch the word judging with being supportive. Needless to say, I've learned my lesson with telling everything..lol
17I usually keep this kind of information to myself anyway.
18I haven't told my best friend, but I think she knows me well enough she suspects.
19No, but I've never slept with anyone I didn't plan to.
20This is really funny. I just told my roommate the truth an hour ago. I went out with a guy last Wednesday & slept with himon the 1st date (I told the roommate we just hooked up) and then didn't here from him. I texted him last night & heard - nothing. So this morning I told her the truth & how I felt all slutty now even though I really like him. And then he texted me to let me know he had a family emergency & is out of state but will call when he gets back.
It just goes to show if I'd been honest from the beginning I would have had the emotion support not to freak out last night & this morning. Instead, it came too late.
But now I'm happy anyway. hA!
21Well, I've only been intimate with one guy, so I can't really answer the whole one-night-stand thing. But my best friend and I have a policy where we tell each other EVERYTHING. For her, it means she thinks twice before doing something stupid, because she knows she'll have to admit it to me. For me, it means that I don't ever have to deal with that feeling of shame that comes from keeping something to yourself. When you laugh about it, a lot of things don't seem quite so awful.
22Nope. But I do keep certain things to myself.
23guilty. I've been with a guy who didn't exactly fit into my standards before, it surprised even me. I think I could tell my best friend about it because she's done it once or twice herself-but some of my other friends are so shallow I don't think they would understand.
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